Getting older and showing signs of older age from medications and medical trauma exposure can definitely play with someone’s psyche. Mixed emotions can play a huge part of one’s ability psyche. Have you seen a doctor or received a referral for your incontinence? Leslie (Community Moderator)
TrippyHarleyMember
It's weekend so Monday but I'm only 62
deedeeMember
Are you short of breath? I have hf and COPD. If I get very sob, I better stand still . Keeping control gets difficult and I'm not in any shape to run to the bathroom. I was told when more oxygen is needed, it takes it way from muscles in that area.
deedeeMember
I've had many days I feel the same so no need to apologize. There could be more than one reason for your problem . I would discuss it with your OB/Gyn. Friend of mine thats 57 just had sling (day)surgery and said she is glad she can laugh, sneeze , lift without wetting herself
TrippyHarleyMember
lol yes I did that before really . Yes that would be nice ty
CommunityMember52f3c6Member
I have experience that also except the cause in my case was from a complete hysterectomy that I had years ago. I started doing kegel exercise and other pelvic exercise. It helped a lot to the point that I don’t do the exercise every day. Also, as we age the pelvic muscles gets weaker. I know this is true for females. Lifting and straining can also contribute to the problem.
TrippyHarleyMember
I have started the exercise. I do it while sitting at stop lights or just watching TV. Nobody even knows